We purchased 20 meal deals and packed them into separate bags, ready to give out along with warm clothes. We would go up to them in a maximum of two and hand out a bag to them. I remember the first person I went up to was sleeping on some stairs under a narrow strip of shelter with a bottle of Malibu next to him. It's easy to judge but for me it was very hard not to feel compassion, as the alcohol was probably the only thing to keep him warm as half of his body was exposed to the rain. I covered him with a blanket and my partner gently woke him up just to let him know that the bag of food and clothes was now his. Anxious for his response at being tapped awake, he was very grateful and did not stop thanking us.
Although I admit was naturally nervous at first, by the end we realised that every single person showed gratitude towards us in one form or another. One thing I felt particularly touched by was a comment made, 'you have cold hands but a warm heart.' Another person said, 'It's bearable being homeless. We would survive. You don't have to help us, but what you do makes life worth living.'
The second person we handed a bag to was from Greece escaping the economic climate there. He was surprisingly very articulate and keen to talk to us about his life and share his story. The eagerness for each person to talk to us and explain how they become homeless was a common trait amongst the people we helped. For example one man was found homeless after his long-term girlfriend had passed away six months previously. He became depressed, an alcoholic and lost his home. It gave me a great insight into how people find themselves in these positions, through a combination of unfortunate events that could happen to anyone including me. This is the main thought I have taken away from that day and to never discriminate, because you cannot judge how people land in the positions they are in.
How You Can Help
Whilst we made the day of it, through this experience I realised just how easy it is to make a difference to someone day to day. If in london eating a meal, it doesn't take a lot buy an extra meal for a homeless person. Every time I go to London (in winter) I have committed to taking a blanket to give to a homeless person that looks cold- a small act of kindness that could make a huge difference to someones life. Above all, sometimes a small gesture such as a conversation or even a smile can brightens someones day.